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A central focus of my work with people involves journeying through the myriad thresholds of soul individuation and integration experiences. I hold sacred space for folks through immersive individual and group relationship offerings. I thought it would be helpful to explain WHAT individuation is and how the heck we accomplish it in this article.
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Soul individuation, in part, is a series of thresholds of self-actualization. It is the process in which we break free from societal norms, family expectations, and cultural narratives to embrace our authentic identity and reclaim lost parts of our souls.
At the heart of this process lies uncovering and embracing the totality of our BEING and aligning with our unique purpose in this lifetime.
The beginning of this journey is never comfortable. It typically presents as a feeling that something is missing or out of alignment in our lives. A sense of disquiet or discontent. Often, the unrest is ushered in by the death of a loved one. When family members die, dynamics begin to shift in the family of origin constellation.
Discomfort intensifies as we are called to acknowledge the conditioning and programming that has shaped us since childhood, now in stark relief in the light of our loss. We begin to see the programming for what it is-limiting thought forms, self-doubt, and patterns of behavior that do not serve our highest good.
Here we must practice discernment as we question what we’ve inherited and release the values and beliefs that do not resonate with our soul’s unique truth.
To individuate means to separate oneself from the collective to become a distinct individual with autonomy and agency. Individuation is the process of coming home to yourself.
This homecoming is a deliberate effort to reclaim our sovereignty from outdated stories and irrelevant timelines. We learn to differentiate from distorted narratives by establishing healthy emotional and psychic boundaries.
These boundaries allow us to separate our own identity from that of our families and communities and cultivate a greater sense of self-direction in our lives.
One of the key aspects of this exploration is Shadow Integration. Working with our Shadow parts requires courage as we explore the darker, more challenging parts of our psyche that we have disowned or suppressed.
This is where we fear that setting boundaries will leave us abandoned and unloved.
When we shine a light on these fears, insecurities, and unresolved traumas, and embrace them with compassion and acceptance, magic ensues.
By integrating our shadows, we reclaim lost parts of ourselves and experience a greater sense of wholeness and authenticity.
We allow ourselves to embody the fullest expression of our soul’s truth.
We allow ourselves to come HOME.
© Kelley Murphy, 2024
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